(that card kinda helped...)
I think back to my first marriage, where infidelity was a reality.
I can't even IMAGINE how difficult it had to be for him to carry out this infidelity without the world wide web to help facilitate it; without a cell phone to sext or send pictures back and forth.
*wipes the sarcasm dripping from her mouth*
Maybe he is to be commended for actually committing adultery without an easier paved avenue.
*ahem*
Look how easy it is now for instant gratification.
It makes the whole thing muckier...and I don't like muckiness.
Is flirty texting considered "cheating"? Is sending lewd pictures of yourself to someone OTHER than your significant other "cheating"? Where do you consider the line to be drawn?
Now you can have "relations" with other people without even laying a finger on them...is THAT cheating?
I don't have the answers, but here is my bottom line....
It's almost as devastating. It's still a betrayal. A betrayal of trust.
Period.
Is that what you really want to put your significant other through?
Golden rule people...Treat others as you wish to be treated. If you found your partner doing those things how you would feel? Would you feel cheated? Betrayed?
Act as you wish your partner to act. Simple enough, isn't it?
I feel really sad for his pregnant wife. What a shame.
Seriously.
meh.
Any woman that's been willing to be married to a guy whose last name is Weiner is already putting up with enough.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you, even texting is cheating. And I'm not some 19th century, nun-loving stick in the mud, I'm just stating a fact. The line is pretty clearly drawn as soon as you say "I would like to stick my dick in you."
I agree, all cheating. It is exactly as you said, if you would find it offensive if your spouse did it, don't.
ReplyDeletePERIOD.
I just do not understand how "famous" people ever think they will get away with cheating. It always comes out.
ReplyDeleteI agree. Cheating. And wrong. So, so wrong.
ReplyDeleteonce you've been cheated on, you're never the same.
ReplyDeleteit's unfortunate but true.
you can forgive and you wish you could forget but it's impossible.
The trust is broken, you can glue it back together but like grandma's vase...you still see the cracks.
I wish that he had been straight up (no pun intended) about the whole thing and not lied. Other than that, I think the affair is between him and his wife. Let's all move on to more urgent needs like jobs and budget deficits and the several wars that we are juggling. Too many balls in the air!
ReplyDeleteSyd said "balls." Heh.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I agree. "How would YOU feel" is always a good measuring stick.
If only my BIL had learned this lesson 3yrs ago.
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